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Pay attention to the thoughts you think, because thoughts are powerful.

Since this is the first step in any creative process and since your thoughts are powerful, the outcome of those thoughts will determine your final result. This means that what you think will in the end produce the result you thought about, whether it’s good or bad.

Think of Alexander Graham Bell who invented the telephone or the Wright Brothers who developed the first airplane. It all started with a thought, and as they continually gave attention to those thoughts, they received ideas which they acted upon even though they encountered many challenges.

Mike Dooley who is the author of the book Infinite Possibilities coined the famous phrase ” Thoughts Become Things.” So if thoughts are that powerful that they create things, imagine what they can do if we use them in the right way. We must understand that everything is created from the non physical quantum level before it shows up in the physical realm. Energy follows thought.

The other reason thoughts are powerful is because thoughts elicit emotions, and the emotions you feel will depend on the thoughts you are thinking. The way you feel affects your behaviour.

So if you think in terms of poverty or lack and if you give substance to those thoughts with fear based feelings like I don’t have, it’s not possible, not enough, can’t afford, that’s what you will reap.

If you think prosperity, and if you give substance to those thoughts with love based feelings feelings like gratitude, life can be easy, I support myself with ease then you will experience a different physical life experience . Wherever you are right now, it’s the result of the way you thought previously. What you think you will produce. What you conceive you will manifest.

Thinking involves a mixture of words, sentences, mental images and sensations. Every day you are thinking 60,000 thoughts per day. What are they? How have those thoughts created what you have? What percentage of them are intentional, purposely chosen thoughts and what percentage are on auto pilot? Does your thinking serve you?

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Are your thoughts occupied with worries, fears, anger or unhappiness most of the time, or with the inner chatter about negative situations and actions? The inner chatter of your thoughts and words that are repeated over and over again in your mind sink into the subconscious mind and affect your behaviour, actions and reactions.

The subconscious mind regards the internal conversation that’s going on within you as expressing and describing a real situation, and strives to bring about your self fulfilling prophecy, and makes it a reality in your life.

This means that if you often tell yourself that it is difficult or impossible to acquire money, that there’s no way you can have a relationship or have good health, the subconscious mind will accept your words and put obstacles in your way.

If you keep telling yourself that you are open to receive all of the goodness life has to offer, that money flows into your life with ease, it will find ways to bring you opportunities to do that, and push you towards taking advantage of them.

This is often done unconsciously, as few people pay attention to their thoughts and the words they use while thinking. Remember that the thoughts that you express through your words shape your life.

Here’s the solution to start the process: change your thoughts change your life. Positive thoughts generate positive feelings and attract positive life experiences.

What one thing will you do from now on so that your thoughts and words will help you build the life that you want? I invite you to share your thoughts.

Love and Blessings,

Your Thoughts Are Powerful




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Are you Feeling Grateful for things that you already have?

One of the things that we are starting to understand is the importance of emotions and how it affects our physical and mental well being. What we may not understand is that emotion has the capacity to carry information beyond this 4D experience, and to imprint our morphogenetic field which goes beyond the time space dimension.

So here’s how it works. The more intense the emotions are regardless if the emotion is one of joy or fear, those emotions carry the information out beyond this moment in time and imprints the field.

Think about any memorable incident that you’ve ever had. Which ones stick with you in your mind? Isn’t it the one that had the most emotion associated with it? That emotional spike functions not only in your limbic system, it goes out into the field as well.

So if someone has had a very emotional experience, the frequency is vibrating like a red hot burner in their field and it has all the information from that incident waiting to be expressed either through joy, or to be repeated again until it’s cleared up of that negative vibration.

A most important factor to understand is that gratitude is a key component of the blueprint for success. Gratitude is not a mental activity. It’s not about writing down what you are feeling grateful for each day (even though that may be a step in the right direction.)

What’s important is that you feel or experience gratitude. Imagine what would happen if you began to focus on what you wanted out of life, with an expectation to succeed, coupled with experiencing waves of gratitude and love. This is what causes something to materialize as if out of “thin air” which gratitude does by tapping into the raw fields of potential.

Dr. Masaru Emoto was a Japanese author and entrepreneur who performed a series of experiments observing the physical effect of words, prayers, music and environment on the crystalline structure of water. He exposed different energies such as love, hate, and gratitude to water.

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Notice the beautiful image of the love and gratitude that is above. Since our body is 70% water it means that what we think about creates our reality, not just emotionally but physically as well.

So anytime you are experiencing feelings of inadequacy, not good enough, unworthiness, resentment, grief, loss and so on, the fastest way of changing your state of being and changing the field is experiencing gratitude.

You may be saying to yourself you’ve got to be kidding. How can I feel gratitude when all I can experience is just the opposite. Here’s the thing, you start by not taking for granted the good that is already present in your life, the simple pleasures and things that you previously took for granted and feel gratitude for it all.

Feeling grateful is not just when you get something that you want, it’s where you notice the little things that take place in your life and where you constantly look for the good even in unpleasant situations.

So here’s what you can do, instead of waiting for a positive experience for feeling grateful, make experiencing gratitude a part of your life style.

I’d love to hear your comments.

Love and Blessings,


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Do You Live In A Positive State Of Expectation?

The dictionary says that a positive state of expectation is the act or the state of expecting, of looking forward, or a degree of probability that something will occur.

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Why is it important to live in a positive state of expectation?

It’s because living in a positive state of expectation has the capacity to condition your environment for success.

This is also true if you live in a negative state of expectation, because it can condition the field for failure. When we fail to recognize and utilize this important principle we are preventing the cogs in the wheel of success from moving forward in life.

So here are a few questions you may need to ask yourself:

  • Do I believe that the Universe is a friendly place to live in?
  • Do I trust that the Universe has my back covered, that I am never alone, and I’m always being guided in my highest good?
  • Do I come from the place that the Universe is working behind the scene in my favor to provide the right opportunities for me at just the right time?

If so, then having this positive attitude that you will succeed becomes easy.

One of the things why people fail to manifest what they want is that they don’t have this general expectation of receiving all the goodness that life has to offer them, or believe that life is good and that life can be easy.

I’m not talking about “how” it’s going to happen, or being attached to a particular outcome. It’s about trusting that everything that is happening is in perfect order.

Would a farmer plant a crop in the spring if he didn’t expect a harvest?

So expectation coupled with focusing your attention on what you want, can change your world. This means having a daily anticipation that opportunity is showing up for you, that you are worthy and capable of success and that you have the power to create what you want out of life.

So take an inventory of how you view life.

  • Are you showing up for yourself?
  • Do you believe you have all the support that you need, and that miracles are happening for you?

Here’s a hint. What is the default system that you revert to when things don’t turn out the way you expected them to go?

I would love to answer any questions you may have. Please leave your questions or share your comments in the comment section below.

Love and Blessings,


p.s.  A great way on how to reduce anxiety is to live in a positive state of expectation that life’s good.

How to get what you want is a top of mind question that people usually think about and so did I for a long time.

Here is the first thing I started to be aware of what I was doing wrong.

I was focusing on the things that I didn’t want, didn’t have or couldn’t have instead of focusing on what it was that I truly wanted.

This is the default system I reverted to when things didn’t turn out the way I wanted them to go. I didn’t understand that the Universe operated by certain laws.

You’ve most likely heard of the saying “where your attention goes energy flows.” In other words whatever you focus on that’s what you are going to get.

Quantum physics has proven this by what is called the observer effect, where just looking at something changes everything.

We know that everything is energy, your dreams, visions and desires. So before they became reality they were at some point just a possibility.

The way to bring them into reality is by you deciding to consciously observe what you want. Another way of saying this is, the thing/s that you want is a wave.

A wave is energy or a possibility, and focusing on what you want, literally collapses the wave of what it is that you want into a particle.

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A particle is the start of something moving from wave energy or a possibility into form or matter.

The same is also true of focusing on what it is that you don’t want, don’t have, can’t do, it’s not fair, all those thoughts that make you feel like a victim…. you get the picture.

This is what is meant by you have the power to create your own reality, and that the starting point is that your observation or what you focus on has a direct affect on your world or your reality.

I’m not saying that when those thoughts and feelings arise that you shove them down, ignore them or vent. No, those feelings are your friends. They are indicators informing you that they need to be owned and acknowledged so that they can be dissipated.

If you get triggered you need to deal with that first, as that energy is running and will do so until it’s cleared. Use any clearing tool you know that will help you release the energy of what’s coming up for you.

After it has been cleared, then focus again on what it is that you want. This is step 1 on materializing what it is that you desire to have in your life. You can see how crucial this initial step is and why not implementing it, is the #1 obstacle to getting what you want to create.

So my question is have you been focusing consciously on how to get what you want?

Are you focusing on or giving your attention to the the things that you want, or on the things that you don’t want?

I invite you to download my free audio on Transform Your Life By Healing Grief and Loss which deals with the healing power of emotions and how to release the emotions that are holding you back from healing your heart and mind.

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Looking forward to your feed back…

Love and Blessings,

p.s. If you would like to know how to get what you want, we are here to assist you.

Here are some Success Tips & Nuggets of Wisdom for 2012

I’ve used these success tips and nuggets of wisdom to keep me on track by bringing them to my awareness on a regular basis. I hope these success tips and nuggets of wisdom will be of great help to you as well.

The answers to life’s questions all lay within you. All you need to do is to look or go within, listen and trust. Neale D. Walsch made this beautiful quote (and pun) “If you don’t go within you go without.”

You have been given all the tools and resources you need, however what you do with them is your choice, so seize the opportunities that come your way or they will pass you by.

There are no mistakes in life only choices and lessons. The perceived failed experiments are as much a part of the process as the experiments that ultimately work. A lesson is repeated until you’ve learned it and it will be repeated until you’ve learned it and then you can move on to the next lesson. Lessons never end.

People and the circumstances that you face are mirror images of you, your thoughts, beliefs and your conditioning. You can’t love or hate someone else unless it reflects something you love or hate about yourself.

Merging success tips with source energy…

When you keep your focus on thoughts that are on things that are good, pure and lovely, suspend judgment of others, and choose to love without condition; when you look at every experience good or bad as a reason to be thankful you remain connected to Spirit.

Any hint of worry is simply an indication that you are pulling away from Source energy or your power. It’s a reminder from the universe that you need to return your attention to the dominant trend of your thoughts, which is, what makes you feel juicy, vibrant and alive.

The Universe is conspiring on your behalf. This belief is about knowing that the universe has your back covered. You can trust that good is always coming your way.

If this isn’t part of your internal programming you’re always looking for the other shoe to drop and when something good happens, you think, say or feel something bad is right on its heel. You’re always in a low fight or flight mode, always vigilant and can’t relax because you’re trying to figure out what’s going to come around the corner.

If the same things keep showing up at your doorstep continually and you want a different outcome then it’s time to change what’s been giving you the results you don’t want. That starts at the level of your thoughts which are the like seeds which will grow in the fertile soil of your mind and will either produce a harvest of weeds or an abundant crop of good food.

To help you implement these success tips and nuggets of wisdom click here to get your complimentary strategy session.

To Your Success,

Brenda Blindenbach Success Tips


PS.  If you have any success tips or nuggets of wisdom you’d like to share please use the comment section below.

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To be grateful for who you are, and what you have accomplished this year is a good way to bring this year to a close. For many of us we tend to focus on all our failures and on the areas we haven’t measured up, which impairs our self esteem.

However acknowledging yourself and remembering how important you really are, is a way of recognizing your worth.

How can you be grateful for who you are?

Self acknowledgement is the key to self love, so give yourself permission to acknowledge your talents, your uniqueness, your strengths and your greatness. Begin by taking an inventory of all the things that you would like to be acknowledged for.

Notice all the times you moved out of your comfort zone and went out on a limb. How you took that small action step that moved you in the direction of your dream helped someone with a word of encouragement or a smile.

What qualities surfaced up as a result of you accomplishing your outer goal? Was it your courage, kindness, your vulnerability, openness, generosity, or your compassion?

How did you unleash your greatness? How did you tap into your maximum potential? Who have you become from all of your triumphs, challenges and experiences? Notice and celebrate both the outer achievements, successes and breakthrough as well as the inner strengths that were always there but you may not have been aware of.

Acknowledge and be grateful for who you are.

You are a divine being but somewhere along your journey through life, you were given messages that told you that in some way or another you were flawed or not good enough.

Take the time now to own those qualities that are in you and be grateful for who you are and your worth. Rejoice in your loveliness and your beauty. There is no one quite like you. You are awesome, amazing and wonderful. Doesn’t that make you feel good? Why is that? It’s because that’s who you are at your essence.

So celebrate, acknowledge, rejoice and be grateful for who you are and your worth.

Leave a comment in the comment section about how you are grateful for who you are, and for all your triumphs and successes you’ve achieved this year.

I’ll leave you with these powerful inspiring words in this video on happiness for you to contemplate on so you can make it one of your intentions for the coming year.

To Your Success,

Brenda Blindenbach Be Grateful For Who You Are

p.s. If you have any questions please contact us and remember “Be Grateful For Who You Are!”

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My business is struggling…

When my coaching clients come to me, they always say “my business is struggling what can I do?” This is what my impromptu video interview with Sharoz Walji of Astral Connections is all about.

I shared how to avoid the 3 Massive Mistakes Most Holistic Practitioners and Healers Make That Keep Them Struggling to Grow Their Business.

Those of you who don’t know me will get some idea about who I am and why I’m working in this field by watching these videos. I talk about how I was given clues to move in the direction of where my heart was leading me. I believe all us are given these clues and all we need to do is to connect the dots to get a sense of where it’s leading us.

When your business is struggling, I’ve found that the #1 key to get what you want is about getting clarity. I stand in awe at how I was led to write a chapter in the book that I co- authored in the series Wake Up Live the Life You Love: Living In Clarity, along with Dr. Wayne Dyer, Anthony Robbins and other personal development experts.

It hit #21 on the Top 100 Best Seller’s List.

Getting clarity about what it is that you want in your business is a challenge for the entrepreneur, healer, artist or writer. That’s the reason getting clarity is crucial if you want to achieve success in your life or business.

Just think of it – how can you get what you want in life, if you don’t know what you want? Here’s a very interesting human phenomenon – people have a tendency of focusing on all the rotten things that are facing them in their everyday lives which prevents them from getting clarity about what it is that they want.

Most human beings have an easier time being conscious and focused on what they don’t have or aren’t doing or what’s facing them in the present moment.

Their focus is on all the things that are bringing them a lot of pain, suffering, anxiety, discomfort and stress. This stress takes a huge toll on their physical, emotional, physiological and energetic being. We now have one of two choices.

Choice #1 Keep focusing on what it is that’s causing all this pain and anxiety and let that energy build up and take over your physical, mental and emotional energy and then have the law of attraction kick in and bring you more of what you’ve been focusing on.

Choice #2 is employing what I call the Polarity Process or the Law of Polarity, which is the practice of leveraging opposites.

How can I shift the “my business is struggling” paradigm?

As a Business Building & Mindset Coach, I will be sharing more about the Law of Polarity and the Polarity Process in my 2 hour workshop Avoid the 3 Massive Mistakes Most Holistic Practitioners & Healers Make That Keep Them Struggling to Grow Their Business.

Thursday 29 September 2011 in Vancouver 7-9 pm

Free when you Pre-Register or $20.00 at the door.

So, let go of your “business is struggling” focus and join us — it’s free when you Pre-Register online by clicking here.

My Business Is Struggling - How can I shift my focus?

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